In this episode, I open up about the reasons why I have chosen not to homeschool my daughter—even as a “crunchy mum” with a love for unconventional, intentional, and alternative choices.
The conscious parenting community often urge mums like me to go down the homeschooling, worldschooling, or unschooling path, but I share why that’s not the best choice for my family. Balancing my roles as a mother, business owner, and partner has led me to some hard-earned truths about my limits, and I’ve come to understand that I can’t, and don’t need to, do it all.
Drawing from the insights of influential thinkers like John Taylor Gatto and Rudolf Steiner, I dig into the spectrum of educational choices available to us and explore why a middle ground exists between traditional schooling and raising our kids entirely on our own terms. I reflect on how Gatto’s critique of modern schooling and Steiner’s vision for nurturing a child’s unique gifts have impacted my outlook on education, influencing my decision to embrace the education path I have. A choice that provides rhythm, reverence, and values that resonate with me—while allowing me to step back and breathe.
As we navigate the complexities of parenting, the expectations to be all things to our children can feel overwhelming. Through my own journey, I’ve learned that sharing the role of teacher with trusted, like-minded educators has brought balance and joy to our lives, nurturing my daughter in ways I would struggle to sustain alone. Join me as I reflect on the concept of being “worthy of imitation,” the importance of intentionality, and the unexpected liberation that comes with acknowledging my own boundaries. I hope this episode offers reassurance to any parent wondering if they can, or even should, take on everything.
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Warning: This podcast is not a highlight reel. (And I think that's a refreshing thing in a world of superficiality and false pretences.)
Go behind the scenes of my life as I build an online business, raise a family with intention, live abroad in a new country, and unpack trauma, programming, and reparent myself openly in the public realm.
In every episode, you’ll get insights into the depth of what it really takes to build a business, whilst being a present mama, living a life outside the box, and doing the work it takes to be who we’re meant to be.
My Mama Summer is my journey to becoming whole.
You can get the written version of this podcast in your inbox each Wednesday at mymamasummer.com and subscribe to the audio on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever else you get your podcasts.
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Aimee Q Devlin is an Australian writer, online business owner, and mother currently living in Mexico, committed to personal growth and evolution, and uncovering how slow motherhood looks in a fast-paced world.
Aimee is the co-founder of the Online Freedom Hackers community where she and her husband Brendan Murphy (https://truthiverse.com) mentor unconventional parents to build freedom-based businesses that buy back their fun, family, and freedom in 5-10 hours a week. Get started here: https://links.onlinefreedomhackers.com/mymamasummer
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